Person-Centered Thinking & Safety
Monday July 19, 2021
Today happens to be Stick Out Your Tongue Day
Introduction
PRESENTERS: Remind everyone of the theme of adapting: it's changing how WE behave and think so we can succeed in new situations and make change work for us instead of freaking us out.
Skill for the week: Confirming answers
Last week we talked about asking questions of ourselves and others in all kinds of situations and for all kinds of reasons. This week we'll focus on what to do when we get an ANSWER to a question.
PRESENTERS: Use the video to ask clarifying questions. So stop the video and demonstrate asking a clarifying question then rewind the video a little to replay what you were asking about.
Thematic Activity: Slide Deck
PRESENTERS: Go over the responses and help people see the diference between questions that are actually about the topic and things that aren't.
(video is long, cut off whenever you want)
Skills INFORMATION
How Listening and Thinking Really Work
PRESENTERS: Try to pause the video after each point and see if you can give participants an example related to program.
Skills Applied
Using the Skills Information In Your ISP Meeting
Move to the beat and watch this dance off!
Fun Misunderstandings
Sequence the Hour
In what order did we learn what?
Civics & Community Awareness
Tuesday July 20, 2021
Today happens to be Moon Day
Recall the Theme and Skill
Adapting and Confirming Answers
Thematic Media
Watch this clip about a community meeting where people are debating banning books in the local school.
Thematic Activity
Using the information you gained from the clip above, ask clarifying questions, answer them together and confirm the answers with follow up statements.
PRESENTERS: Pose the questions below about the clip and either provide the answers, or get them from participants. Then prompt participants to devise confirmation questions or provide models of confirmation questions yourself and explain how they make sure the answer is understood.
Skills Media--Thinking about communication
(presenter pitches her service at 5:20 so you can stop the video there)
Skills Info
PRESENTERS: Describe the interview and ask participants questions that confirm understanding.
Body Break--this is very silly, so pick something else if you want
Skills Applied
PRESENTERS: Read the follow up questions below. and give possible answers. Have participants confirm understanding of the answers.
Example:
Possible Answer:
You can be a good team player, communicate regularly and well, and be ready to learn new things.
Confirming Understanding Prompts:
Questions
Sequence the Hour
What did we learn in what order?
Well Being and Social Connection
Wednesday July 21, 2021
Today happens to be Take A Monkey To Lunch Day
Recall the theme and skill: adapting and confirming understanding
Watch the Video and re-state the 3 rules in your own words.
These rules will help you communicate with co-workers but they are also important in other relationships.
All of our activities depend on others. We don't do anything in life without the help or work of someone else, even if we never see or meet them. For the people we DO see and talk with, our relationships deserve our efforts to create UNDERSTANDING.
Thematic Activity
For each mini-situation decide if the people are trying to create UNDERSTANDING or have a different goal.
Skills Media--Strong Identity Development
It's important to figure out who we are. When we have a strong positive identity we can communicate well and give love and kindness easily. Even if we figure out who we are later in life we can gain this ability.
Skills Information
Make sure you understand the situation you are in to understand how best to communicate. Review this info graphic to see questions to ask YOURSELF before speaking to make sure you understand the impact of your own words and actions.
PRESENTERS: Go through the exercises in the video with your group using the rules or judgements listed below.
Fun Stuff
Sequence the Hour
What did we learn in what order?
Rights & Self Advocacy
Thursday July 22, 2021
Today happens to be Spoonerism Day (Or Doonerism Spay)
Image used under Fair Use as Illustrative Commentary
Recall the them and skill: Adapting and confirming answers
Thematic Media
Thematic Activity
Presenters: Ask a confirming question about rights listed below. Try to use an example if posssible. See the first instance for a model.
Having a private life
So having a private life means you can decide who comes into your private spaces? If Mary has a private bedroom and a private bathroom and her own entrance to that room, she doesn't HAVE to let anyone in she doesn't want to, right?
Be myself
Respect
Dignity
Life in the community
Choices
Private information
Get things
Listen to me
Safety from abuse or bad treatment
I get food, drink, shelter, physical movement, using the restroom
No one can force me to work for someone else for free.
Body Break—the Camel Walk - start video at 00:26 seconds to see this move
Skills Media
PRESENTERS: Pause the video at each right and have your group repeat what they heard.
July is Disability Pride Month. People with disabilities fought hard for your rights. You should be able to say your rights to anyone whenever you need to.
Practice expressing your rights.
Skills Information—How to Be a Better Ally
Is this video correct? Do you agree with what the person said about being an ally?
Skills Applied
What is your "I am" statement? How many can you think of? Use your hobbies, interests, skills, experience and community memberships to come up with I am statements.
Body Break—the Juice- start video at 01:34 seconds to see this move
Disability Pride Animals
Sequence the Hour
Knowledge & Fun
Friday July 23, 2021
Today happens to be Gorgeous Grandma Day
Review the Theme and Skill
What was the theme? What does that mean?
What skill did you practice this week?
Choose the movie your group might like
Body Break—Dance through the decades
Music
Choose a Stevie Wonder Music Video or more than one. Get up and dance. This stuff grooves.
Stand-Up Comedy 24 min - watch as long as it's interesting. (Disability Pride relevant)
Can you invent a body break move that's weird but feel good?
Silly Stuff
Sequence the Week.
Choosing Fun Stuff to Do
Need some help deciding on an afternoon activity?
The activities are numbered. These numbers corrospond to brief activity descriptions listen in the linked document below.